Ultimately we are only responsible for ourselves, and can only lead by example of how we live our own lives. You are not responsible for other's feelings and emotions, only our own. We can only work on ourselves and move forward, initiate change and resolve to move. When you work on yourself through healing and self awareness you start a chain reaction that will touch every area of your life, and therefore those around you. People around you will sense these changes and will either embrace and accept them, or they will simply slip out of your life. The people that are not ready for change or are negative will simply not be tolerated any longer by your energy and will clearly be repelled by it. It is simply the law of attraction. Goodness and awareness attracts goodness and awareness, and so the opposite is true also.
Worrying about the future and the past is futile, there is only now, so just start there. What do you wish to change? How do you wish to be seen by others? These are the moral dilemmas of an ever changing world and society. Through universal truth the answers only lie within you waiting discovery.
The work done to heal yourself is yours and is sacred, seek guidance and counselling to facilitate the healing. Feel yourself moving and keep the momentum going. Just ask the universe to provide what you need, seek direction and it shall come. Just ask for it, and it shall be delivered.
There is such a strong mind, body, spirit connection within us all and has been ignored for so long by many. Clearing out the old to make way for the new you is the best thing you can do for everyone in your life, especially you. Do not ignore the feelings you have, listen if you have fear, pay attention if you are experiencing pain, they are all intuitive messages or signals that something is not right inside. God always throws a pebble, before he throws a brick at you.
If you are in an unhappy situation, remember you were the one that lead you there in the first place, something has to happen to trigger this realisation, when it does, don't ignore it, go with it and see where it will lead. To feel renewed and have a sense of hope for the future is something we are all entitled to. You do have a right to be cherished and loved, no one can take this from you. You are the only one that can be in charge of your changes. Awaken the god or goddess within you and grasp the concept of freedom. It's all yours just waiting for you to reach out for it.
Freedom is gained through discipline and knowledge, just as Adam and Eve were sent from the garden of Eden, so must you be set free from the comforts of the negative patterns and restraints of your life in order to be happy. Even in our most miserable moments, we cling to false hope that someone will save us or rescue us. Only you have that power, it cannot be done riding on the coat tails of others. A new path is forming ahead of you, and the sun rises each day to prove just this is true. Just imagine the sun shining on your face, it radiates warmth and light, it is good, it is whole, it is connected to everything, it is unlimited, so are you. Feel this, you have the right to feel it. Deep inside you, you know this is the universal truth.